One Saturday morning after my husband and I slept in, our foster at the time Yoshi demolished our tissue box. Lovely….
There’s a new show on ABC on Wednesday nights called Don’t Blame the Dog. It’s basically the canine version of World’s Strictest Parents. If you’ve never seen the show, they basically talk to people in the UK who have an unruly dog who’s out of control. They then fly them to the other side of the world (in this episode it’s in Oz) to see well trained dogs in action. Yesterday’s show was all about working farm dogs and a well known trainer who trains them.
The tv show is very vague on training techniques and specific behavioural problems. It just keeps explaining that it’s not the dog’s fault, it’s the owner’s fault for causing the dog to act up. It’s a clever angle because there are SO many different training techniques and people are very passionate about the ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ way of doing things. One thing that everyone can agree on is to blame the environment that is allowing the behaviour to happen. In this show there’s no super hero dog trainer and definitely no leather pants or dogs running on treadmills.
The show is entertaining enough. It’s easy to sit back and judge the owners and feel compassion for their journey. It’s rewarding to see the owners learning to take responsibility for their dogs. The main thing that jumped out at me was the frustration and anger the owners have towards the dog when it acts up. I completely understand that! While watching the show I was so empathetic towards Kim, a 20 something year old girl who loved her dog, but would get so annoyed and powerless when her Staffordshire Terrier called Chunky (great name) plays up. There’s a montage of scenarios where Kim is screeching while Chunky walks on kitchen benches, pees on the floor and drags her down the street on a lead so he can hump another dog. Poor Kim is caught between yelling at the dog, chasing it down and trying to keep her skinny jeans from falling off.
This is Molly who stole a oven mitt of the bench and turned it into a chew toy. It was a rainy day and she hadn’t been for a walk.
I’ve felt exactly the same with some of my fosters! They end up doing something naughty and you try to discipline them by raising your voice or grabbing them around the collar to get control. You know it’s not working, the dog just gets more and more excited, but in the heat of the moment it’s your first reaction and it’s mainly out of frustration.
What I’ve found works best to have a plan BEFORE the dog acts up. Dogs are habitual and if they have learnt a bad behaviour, you’ll see it regularly. You may even know a trigger that sets off the behaviour – like jumping when the food bowl comes out or pulling on the lead when you walk past another dog. If I know my foster is going to act up, my husband and I plan out how we’re going to deal with it BEFORE it happens. It sometimes means I put a check chain on the dog to convey a reprimand. Or it may mean my hubby and I arm ourselves with treats to distract the dog and to reward him/her when they act differently.
It’s important to discipline and train a dog out of bad behaviours in a controlled unemotional way. If it’s done out of frustration, you’re guaranteed to fail. Another advantage about seeing training as a logical, unemotional task is that you can continually re-evaluate how the technique is going. If I don’t see progress happen I can feel myself getting impatient and frustrated again. That’s usually a signal that I need to re-evaluate. I talk to other foster carers and work on a another technique. If you un-emotionalise the issue (not sure if that’s a word!) you’re less likely to think you’re ‘failing’ and instead be willing to seek out something new.
Have you found yourself getting so emotional about your dog that it’s detrimental to it’s health or behaviour?
You can watch Don’t Blame the Dogs on the fabulous iView player here. Matt and Danielle Webb, the dog trainers in the episode, run courses in training stock dogs through their business Kippakoop. Info can be found here. It looks like good fun for kelpies and border collies!